Look, I’m no expert, but I have been married for half a year now. Before I got married, I thought as soon as I got married, all of my problems would disappear… But no! I learned it the hard way. I always had the image of marriage as a problem-free-union. I knew that sometimes you would disagree, but I always thought it was mentally easy, but I have now learned it. It is defiantly not easy! Sometime it is, but not always.
My whole world turned upside down as soon as we got married. We had decided that we didn’t want to move in together before we got married. It was a good decision and I really cherish it. But sometimes
I think, maybe it would have been easier to have lived together before.
We have now been married for half a year and our journey has just begun. My life is sometimes a mess and I hurt my husband. Sometimes my husband is tired and expect me to
make dinner, but I have had a horrible day to. Sometimes he comes home tired and he hurts me. But despite all the hurting, we still stick together. We made a decision on August 6th 2016 that we would love each other no matter what, “in sickness and in health, until death do us part”. We stand by our decision, but it is not always easy.
So if you are out there, getting married or having the same thoughts as I did, be prepared! Marriage is not something to be taking lightly. It is a serious decision, so think it through.